Spontaneous Storytelling With Children: A Lost Art?

“Tell me a story!”

It was a steamy summer afternoon in D.C.  I had been babysitting our friends’ children – Clare, age five, and Kate, age three – regularly that summer so that their mother could finish her doctoral dissertation.  The girls and I had just returned from the park, hot and sweaty and tired, they from playing, I from the mile walk.  Lunch, clean up, quiet time.

And then came the request.  I, of course, looked for a book.  No books.  Many children’s books sat stacked high on a shelf, but I did not see them.

“Oh, oh! A story!” said the other sister, joining us.

“Once upon a time,” I began (because all stories begin this way), “there were two princesses.  Princess Clare and Princess Kate.”

“Wait!” interrupted Clare.  “Can I be Princess Annabelle?”

“Okay.”

“And I’m Princess Judy,” drawled the high voice of three-year-old Kate.

“Alright,” I agreed. “Once upon a time, there were two princesses.  Princess Annabelle and Princess Judy.  They lived in a shining castle at the top of a mountain…”

The girls sat eager and engaged as I spun out one tale, and then another, and then another.  Princess Annabelle and Princess Judy live in the Castle of Udolpho (apologies to Ann Radcliffe) in the middle of the Machanitcal Forest (a cross between magical and enchanted ).  They meet and befriend a knightly dwarf and a unicorn named Nellie who help them slay the monsters and dragons they meet in the magical twists and turns of the forest, only to return home to the comforts of their castle and the love of their parents, the King and Queen.

The girls have not forgotten these stories.  In fact, for three years, after their family moved back to the Seattle area, the girls and their parents have continued to tell the tales of the Castle of Udolpho.  New characters have been introduced, others lost.  The Princesses have voyaged to the ends of the earth and back, always keeping their knapsacks handy, filled with magic wands, clothes, food, bandages, flashlights, and the definitive edition of the Monsters Field Guide, that they themselves wrote and continue to revise.  These Princesses are budding naturalists.

When I visited them, three years later, this past January, Clare and Kate were eager for more stories.  “Can you tell us a Machantical Forest story?  Please?  Please?  Please?”

So I did.

Spontaneous storytelling with children is a delight.  It is also something of a lost art, I suspect.  In our home, a board book is always within reach, and we read, rather than tell, stories.  (My stories with Clare and Kate are the exception, not the rule.)  It makes me wonder what we’re losing, if we are indeed losing it.

What does oral and spontaneous storytelling foster in the child – and in the adult – that the board or picture book cannot? 

What makes for children receptive to – and participants in – oral storytelling?

And what literary devices – good, bad, and otherwise – do we naturally gravitate toward in telling a spontaneous story?

I’d like to explore these questions over the next few weeks.  I encourage you to share your thoughts and special memories of storytelling, either as the child hearing or the adult spinning the tale, in the comment box.  As a parent and a learning and growing storyteller, I am eager to incorporate your thoughts and experiences into my own reflections.

7 Quick Takes, 4/27/12: In Which She Discovers New and Old Things

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Let’s begin with Zora Neale Hurston.  Ms. Hurston, where have you been all my life?

Credit: WikiCommons

Here I’ve been, calling myself a reader, and I’ve just now (like, ten minutes ago) finished the most excellent book Their Eyes Were Watching God.   Seriously. What have I been doing all these years?

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Well, I’m here at WordPress.  What do you think?  You can compare this to the old blog, over at rcmfo.blogspot.com.

It’s hard, switching from Blogger to WordPress.  Blogger let me do whatever I wanted to do, like make the font size BIGGER.  WordPress says, “Uh, uh, nooooo! Not without paying for it!”  And let’s not mention the hour I spent looking for the magic code that would let me insert extra line breaks into my text.

Frustrating.  And yet… in the end, worth it.

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Speaking of that magic code… How To Insert Additional Line Breaks Into WordPress Without Ripping the Very Hairs From Your Delicate Head:

Copy this piece of good luck where you want it, while in the HTML view:

<br style="height:4em;" />

Change the “4″ to adjust the width of the line break.  Done.  Enjoy a margarita.

(Okay, now I’m ticked off.  This worked for me earlier.  Now, it’s getting deleted.  Stupid WordPress, I JUST WANT TO PUT IN SOME LINE BREAKS!  IS THAT TOO MUCH TO ASK?)

(Update:  I just figured it out.  It works between paragraphs in the “paragraph” setting, but gets deleted between “paragraphs” and “headings.” Oh, and you have to save it from the HTML view. Ack!)

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Take a breath, girl.  Let’s think about happier things…

Duh-duh-duh-duh-DUM-DUM/ Duh-duh-duh-duh-DUM / Duh-duh-duh-duh-DUM-DUM / Duh-duh-duh-duh-dum…

This awesome movie arrived in the mail this week.  Shall we watch it?  Yes, we shall!

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There’s nothing like a bit honesty from a book doctor:

The hardest part of writing these memos is being diplomatic and encouraging while pointing out the manuscript’s problems. Obviously I cannot come out and tell the writer that his or her story sucks and he or she should take up breeding long-haired dachshunds.  But there have been times when I’ve wanted to suggest a change of occupation even as I felt so much sympathy for the writer that I could have wept.

Jessica Page Morrell, Thanks, But This Isn’t For Us: A (Sort of) Compassionate Guide to Why Your Writing Is Being Rejected.  This book continues to crack me up, probably because she’s describing me.  But I’m not really a dachshund kind of girl.

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Question for you fiction writers out there:  What is the best way to go about studying the craft?

Here I am, playing at my novel, like a little girl with paper dolls, almost entirely ignorant of pretty much everything about writing.  My library card is showing signs of frequent use, but otherwise I’m in need of something a bit more systematic.  And serious.  Any thoughts?

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That’s all for now.  Read other great posts at…

{pretty, happy, funny, real} – 4/27/12

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Columbine!

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My Old Faded Rose (bar-rhum…)

Not only did the Corolla get a new hubcap

…but she also got some new struts. And what better way to celebrate new struts than to take the old girl out for a spin?

We’re off to Seattle to see friends.  Be back in a few days!

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